defying the norm...

defying the norm... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/ It doesn't matter what other people think or say I dont live to please them... what matter is, I've made the most of what I have.. I had fun, learned from my mistakes & live through it all... Despite the gossips, trash talks and intrigues. Thats being ReaL! Living a life fearless of other peoples shadow. So why care about people who condemns me from what they hear or see For as long as I know myself, I'll just be happy being ME!< > Wed, 20 Aug 2008 23:10:04 -0000 Mon, 12 May 2008 12:44:47 -0000 defying the norm... http://images.eljhaey.multiply.com/logo http://eljhaey.multiply.com 100 100 The Cure - Friday I'm In Love http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/23/The_Cure_-_Friday_Im_In_Love Mon, 12 May 2008 12:44:47 -0000 Oasis - Wonderwall Today is gonna be the day That they're gonna throw it back to you By now you should've somehow Realized what you gotta do I don't believe that anybody Feels the way I do About you now Backbeat the word is on the street That the fire in your heart is out I'm sure you've heard it all before But you never really had a doubt I don't believe that anybody Feels the way I do about you now And all the roads we have to walk are winding And all the lights that lead us there are blinding There are many things that I would Like to say to you But I don't know how Because maybe You're gonna be the one that saves me And after all You're my wonderwall Today was gonna be the day But they'll never throw it back to you By now you should've somehow Realized what you're not to do I don't believe that anybody Feels the way I do About you now And all the roads that lead you there were winding And all the lights that light the way are bli... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/22/Oasis_-_Wonderwall Mon, 12 May 2008 06:11:10 -0000 I am Sam -TRAILER it's about PATIENCE.... it's about LISTENING... it's about LOVE!!! this movie doesn't only make you cry, but this humbles me, to see what real LOVE is... the kind that defies what is logical or something dictated by the mind, instead what the HEART truly feels... the one will http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/20/I_am_Sam_-TRAILER Thu, 24 Apr 2008 20:25:07 -0000 Wherever You Are By South Border I love to see the ocean's beauty and the moon that shines above Alone in the sand looking at the stars Wishing someday I would find true love Would it be nice to see the morning With the one you love the most Would it be nice to say goodnight To the one you hold so close To your heart To your heart Chorus: The wind that blows the dove Is the wind that blows my love Hope it'll find its way to you Wherever you are I love to sit in fields of green Looking deeply through the sky Watching birds as they fly by Hoping someday fate will bring me true love Would it be nice to hold someone So dear, near your heart Would it be nice to hear those words I love you from the one that you love that you love Repeat Chorus 2 times... Yeah... yeah.... yeah.... Bridge: I'd love to see myself one day In the arms of someone Who will share her life with me selflessly.. someday... You will find your way... to me... Repeat Chorus http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/19/Wherever_You_Are_By_South_Border Sat, 19 Apr 2008 09:44:41 -0000 Baby... Don't You Break My Heart Slow... i'd rather you be mean, than LOVE and http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/18/Baby..._Dont_You_Break_My_Heart_Slow... Fri, 11 Apr 2008 06:32:23 -0000 LeFT BeHiND - A HISTORY have anyone noticed that so far most of my entries here is more of back tracking and somewhat on a nostalgic approach(at may ganun talaga?!). here goes another one! I have been reminded of my younger "ME"<IMG src="http://images.multiply.com/common/smiles/star.png"> debating with my tito's(who are just drunk that night that's why they obliged) back in my intermediate days,on what is the significance of studying history. I must admit that it's one of the most boring subject for me. Modesty aside, it wasn't a problem for me to pass this subject though, or maybe that's one reason why i don't put too much heart on it. Or simply i am just not a fan.<IMG src="http://images.multiply.com/common/smiles/wink.png"> As one of my previous teacher told us, "history opens the door to the future". In my tiny mind then, I did not further argue. I accepted that history provides us lessons to learn... it has been our guide... a vision of what maybe in-store for tommorow. Ok fine, in that sense, history have served it's purpose well. On the contrary, aren't we the ones who's creating our own history? So when I hear  some... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/50/LeFT_BeHiND_-_A_HISTORY Tue, 4 Mar 2008 14:19:04 -0000 MiNDLESSnESS MaDNeSS translation? BALIW! Gusto ko magsulat... kahit ano...random thoughts... my head's in a jam. I wasn't able to attend mass today, i really needed the comfort from God, magulo ngayon ang sense of direction ko. Suddenly i feel like i am lost. I just called my mom a while ago, kasi i feel the need to talk to someone who'll hear me out,to clear cobwebs in my head Ewan ko ba? malamang epekto ng pagiging autistic ko since I moved and started working here in SG. Alam ko naman, i have always had this "detachment" syndrome... and lately i feel the need to breath new air. Nauuta na ako sa work ko, but i need to work. Last night I chatted with my friend sa Pinas, we used to work in the same company before, when i left eventually most of my batchmates left as well including her. She's self-employed sort of, working in a home-based call center. Considering the income she gets and convinience of staying home which means not being away from her family, makes me want to re... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/49/MiNDLESSnESS_MaDNeSS_translation_BALIW Sun, 2 Mar 2008 15:26:33 -0000 SAMU'T SARING OPINYON.. MY SAY! 1. The athletic or the intelligent? intelligent and sensible kausap, but if it happens that he's athletic also, then, BINGO! 2. The singer or the dancer? SINGER! mas sweet ata yung i-serenade ka kesa sayawan ka diba? unless you prefer gigolo? joke! 3. yung may sense of humor or the mysterious type? a little mystery is nice but when he speaks he must've some humor too! (choosy) 4 . Pakipot or straight forward? cute din yung pakipot for a certain time frame, but confirmity comes from someone who's direct to the point... 5. The romantic or the silent type? shempre romantic, pero di ko lang magets yung contrast with silent? haha! mangialam ba? 6. bright sa Science o sa Math? kahit ano, at least he has some knowledge any how. 7. chinese type or typical pinoy.. i'm not fond of chinese looking guy, but that doesn't mean i don't find them good looking huh? i just prefer pinoy looking and its even better if he has some eurasian blood... *daydream 8 . moreno/morena o maputi ang gs2 mo? a little fairer than mor... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/48/SAMUT_SARING_OPINYON.._MY_SAY Sat, 1 Mar 2008 10:08:30 -0000 Chicago - Hard Habit To Break I guess I thought youd be here forever Another illusion I chose to create You dont know what ya got until its gone And I found out just a little too late I was acting as if you were lucky to have me Doin you a favor I hardly knew you were there But then you were gone and it was all wrong Had no idea how much I cared Chorus: Now being without you Takes a lot of getting used to Should learn to live with it But I dont want to Living without you Is all a big mistake Instead of getting easier Its the hardest thing to take Im addicted to ya babe Youre a hard habit to break You found someone else you had every reason You know I cant blame you for runnin to him Two people together but living alone I was spreading my love too thin After all of these years Im still tryin to shake it Doin much better they say that it just takes time But deep in the night its an endless flight I cant get ya out of my mind Chorus 2nd chorus: Being without you Takes a lot o... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/15/Chicago_-_Hard_Habit_To_Break Wed, 27 Feb 2008 10:07:13 -0000 Amy Grant - That's What Love Is For Sometimes we make it harder than it is We'll take a perfect night And fill it up with words we don't mean Dark sides best unseen And we wonder why we're feeling this way. Sometimes I wonder if we really feel the same Why we can be unkind Questioning the strongest of hearts That's when we must start Believing in the one thing that has gotten us this far. That's what love is for To help us through it That's what love if for Nothing else can do it. Melt our defenses Bring us back to our senses Give us strength to try once more Baby, that's what love is for. Sometimes I see you And you don't know I am there And I'm washed away by emotions I hold deep down inside Getting stronger with time It's living through the fire And holding on we find That's what love is for To help us through it That's what love if for Nothing else can do it. Melt our defenses Bring us back to our senses Give us strength to try once more Baby... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/13/Amy_Grant_-_Thats_What_Love_Is_For Mon, 25 Feb 2008 15:01:15 -0000 cluttered i am still at this point amazed with people who keeps their blog everyday... makes me wonder where do they get all these endless thoughts from? oh yeah i've noticed most of them really reads a lot. well, that one i'm sure i've been missing. i don't know, i had to be in the mood for reading and it has to be something that i should get to enjoy reading. it was never part of my system to make it a habit. i confess some books leads me to sleep soundly that the following morning i am not too keen to finish it. somewhere, somehow, some profoundness is rooted in me too,(i hope?!) but then i am not really so good in interpreting them in a well versed writing. i am quite an opinionated person. i know what i want to believe in and makes sure i stand firm with whatever that is. i missed my friendly thesaurus back home which has saved me from my usual redundancy syndrome. for a while it made me feel that i have had my vocabulary upgrading placed on halt, becaus... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/47/cluttered Sun, 17 Feb 2008 16:03:16 -0000 weekend in new england Last night I waved goodbye, now it seems years I'm back in the city where nothin' is clear But thoughts of me holding you, bringin' us near, and tell me When will our eyes meet, when can I touch you? When will this strong yearnin' end? And when will I hold you again? Time in New England took me away To long rocky beaches and you by the bay We started a story whose end must now wait, and tell me When will our eyes meet, when can I touch you? When will this strong yearnin' end? And when will I hold you again? I feel the change comin', I feel the wind blow I feel brave and daring, I feel my blood flow With you I could bring out all the love that I had With you there's a heaven, so Earth ain't so bad, and tell me When will our eyes meet, when can I touch you? When will this strong yearnin' end? And when will I hold you again, again? http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/12/weekend_in_new_england Fri, 15 Feb 2008 15:40:52 -0000 A penny for your thoughts http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/11/A_penny_for_your_thoughts Fri, 8 Feb 2008 15:14:43 -0000 Loggins and Messina House at Pooh Corner LIVE http://eljhaey.multiply.com/video/item/5/Loggins_and_Messina_House_at_Pooh_Corner_LIVE Tue, 5 Feb 2008 02:35:41 -0000 http://eljhaey.multiply.com/music/item/16/ Fri, 25 Jan 2008 17:00:14 -0000 a "RoSe" Story <A href="http://eljhaey.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/R5m2LgoKCDsAABUVOQM1"><IMG class=alignmiddleb src="http://images.eljhaey.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R5m2LgoKCDsAABUVOQM1/rose.jpg?et=2ZbZpOtRKSzReXEg4I0WBQ&nmid=" border=0></A> The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.  I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.  She said, "Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?"  I laughed and enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a giant squeeze.  "Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.  She jokingly replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids..."  "No seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.  "I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she told me.  After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.  We became inst... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/45/a_RoSe_Story Fri, 25 Jan 2008 06:53:55 -0000 VienTe Sais <A href="http://eljhaey.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/R5i0QAoKCDsAADnqetE1"><IMG class=alignleft src="http://images.eljhaey.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/R5i0QAoKCDsAADnqetE1/26.gif?et=bJjL%2BZCq7pN95St9W44bxw&nmid=" border=0></A>what does twenty six means? i tried searching in google but it didn't give me any sensible answers. i'm no numerology expert but when you add up 2 and 6 that will result to 8 which defines infinity. oh well, my summation is not really well researched, that's just my assumption! hahaha! maybe i am just trying to give a meaning to my age. but come to think of it? isn't "infinity" is such a hopeful and a positive word? it promises endless possibilities... for the past 26 years of my life, i'd say my life has been my achievement. there have been quite a number of mischief and challenges I thought I won't be able to conquer, but hey! here i am standing still ready to face a new day. i always thank God for the people i have and had in my life. for me, they are my real blessings. i may not have all dainty pricey stuff, but having the great bunch of people made me worth even richer than any richest man in the world. seriously! as in! they are the reason why i am, who i am and wh... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/44/VienTe_Sais Wed, 23 Jan 2008 02:10:00 -0000 HanDa Ka Na BA???   since valentines day will be coming in a few weeks time,it just came to my mind how will this day be different from my usual valentines day. since i recently got my roster for the coming month,i realized  luckily and unluckily february 14th falls on my day off so i thought, maybe it's a chance for me to make a difference, ( i hope) or perhaps a good tactic to seclude myself from those couple wearing red, bouquets and chocolates, PDA's and all that fancy couple thing. not that i am bitter or what, but sometimes it hits my esteem, why all this time i am uncoupled, but then again what's new?   i remember one valentines day, i intentionally made it the "singles soiree" for all my other single/unattached girl friends. i hosted it, prepared some food and sang our hearts out in the tune of all the women empowering songs! "i will survive" was just one of them. and i bet you that made all of us feel good! it was fun! &nbsp... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/43/HanDa_Ka_Na_BA Sun, 20 Jan 2008 05:37:30 -0000 GiRLS!!! take note! GuYs You May DisAgRee?! Inspirational  quotes from Sex and the City...     1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.   -wag kasing ipilit! 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.   -not unless your a defense lawyer then maybe it's fine! what? 3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.   -umpisa pa lang sablay na itutuloy pa ba? 4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.   -woman's instict can be ruthless try to use it intelligently. 5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.   -just stop changing for anyone but YOU! 6. Don't force an attraction. 7. Slower is better. 8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 10. Have faith in God regar... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/42/GiRLS_take_note_GuYs_You_May_DisAgRee Fri, 18 Jan 2008 13:37:07 -0000 The FunPack Design Competition My Friends/Fellow Multipliers; In support of a friend, I would like to ask you a favor to vote for his work.. http://eljhaey.multiply.com/links/item/1/The_FunPack_Design_Competition Sun, 7 Oct 2007 13:38:16 -0000 ExPReSSioNs oF A CaLL oN DuTY <a href="/photos/hi-res/upload/Rs@zbgoKCrUAAAScM9c1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.eljhaey.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Rs@zbgoKCrUAAAScM9c1/smiley-call-center-agent02.gif?et=pHLdZs%2B8nNyXkSLpLaOecQ" border="0"></a> "Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening... This is blah..blah... how can i help you???" Sounds familiar??? For call center peeps like ME its pretty obvious! Honestly, what comes in mind when you hear about "call center"? NO brainer job is it??? For people who's not been in the industry or probably been there but had a worst experience, its easy to come up with such judgements. It may not give you distinct titles like, DR., ATTY., HONORABLES.. so what?? that doesn't make it less as a "career". Mind you, I was fortunate to have the opportunity to work with the amazing and wonderful individuals in the industry and not discounting their intellects.... Of course, i can't speak for everyone, but as far as my experience is concern, i have no complains... Some say, what's so fulfilling with the job? Some even pointed that i may just be motivated by money... if money was my ultimate drive, i could have switched to politics which we all know the most "decent" and claims to be for the "intelligent ones".... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/32/ExPReSSioNs_oF_A_CaLL_oN_DuTY Sat, 25 Aug 2007 04:45:13 -0000 THE FIRST DECISION FOR SUCCESS - by Andy Andrews From this moment 4ward, I will accept responsibility for my past.  I understand that the beginning of wisdom is to accept the responsibility for my own problems & that by accepting responsibility for my past, I free myself to move into a bigger, brighter future of my own choosing.   Never again will i blame my parents, my spouse, my boss, or other employees for my present situation.  Neither my education nor lack of one, my genetics, or the circumstantial ebb & flow of everyday life will affect my future in a negative way.  If i allow myself to blame these uncontrollable forces for my lack of success, I will be forever caught in a web of the past.  I will forward.  I will not let history control my destiny.   The buck stops here.  I accept responsibilty for my past.  I am responsible for my success.   I am where I am today---mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially-- because of decisions i... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/30/THE_FIRST_DECISION_FOR_SUCCESS_-_by_Andy_Andrews Thu, 19 Jul 2007 00:59:56 -0000 KnOWinG ThE REEL.... i suddenly got pissed by some twists... why am i here in multiply? why am i adding people i barely know? guess, im just being human... a fan? whats wrong with being friendly?? or just trying to get in touched... i cant remember a single multiplier whom i posted nasty or mean notes... (aside from lalaland errr... but nothing really offensive or brutal, besides shes not someone i should be bothered about) thats just not my thing... i am not here trying to please people... my site is an expression of ME. whoever appreciates... thank you! i guess, some people can be overly obsessed with their status and ordinary stangers like me,dont matter... whats my point??? just get real! if you dont like a person then dont act as if you do. everybody hated fakers but unconsciously they're becoming one. why are you fond of haters? then maybe you're give out reasons for people to hate you... i hate to use the word hate... for "hatred" only applies to someone you love or at least someone you've been closely attache... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/28/KnOWinG_ThE_REEL.... Sun, 15 Jul 2007 07:04:09 -0000 HoPeLeSSLy RoMaNTic... Blame the Fairy tales... they molded my idea of "romance"     Count Helen Meriz, for once I became a loyal reader of her tagalog novels...     But isn't nice to be ideal and be moved by romanticism....     I've heard a lot of tales of pairing up then breaking up.     Sad stories, some i even got mad... i am somehow feeling the pain...     I still believe in magic...     Such a fantasy...     Relieving the child in me...     Love is supposed to be ageless and timeless     And it should always make you feel good... always...     So when I am asked... are you in love???     I say... Always...     Its a positive feeling....     It makes me feel good, even if that "MAN" is yet to be known...     Reasons to make me look forward tomorrow...     Excites me... PlantS a SMiLe on my face..... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/24/HoPeLeSSLy_RoMaNTic... Thu, 14 Jun 2007 09:05:45 -0000 My SoLo Outlook… Listen Up! So what if I’m single? I’m not alone… it’s really tough for a 25 year old like me to claim I am single, much worst to admit that you are a member of  N.B.S.B. society. People start passing judgments on you, as if they really know you.   In this generation where relationships are established in an instant and in so many so ways, I can’t blame some people wondering why I’m staying in this status. Call it fate… perhaps a choice… but should that be a problem? I don’t think that it will fit me in the category of unhappy, inexperienced, dumb, insensitive or handicapped individual just because I’m uncoupled. On the contrary, being single allowed me to become a better ME. It taught me to appreciate what a real happiness is, it opened my eyes to see more and widen my perspective. I’m not a man-hater or have a relationship phobia. Actually, the word “lovelife” excites me, I’m even looking forward to have my own. Admittedly, I get “senti” once in a while. There are days when I wonde... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/23/23 Sat, 5 May 2007 02:54:18 -0000 SingLe RoCKs! --- i got this from friendster bullettin, and created my own. katuwa! though i dont get what's the connection with the title.   1.Do you know where your sister is right now? - upstairs @ our room 2.Last time you hugged someone? - a while ago. My sis Nica! 3. What is something you've learned about yourself recently? - that I’m pretty? WoW! 4. What color is your watch? - combination of gold and silver 5. Do you like anyone? - I guess so, but not really. Hahaha! 6. Do you know of anyone who likes you? - I’m not sure, no one had the guts to verbalize it. 7. Where do you work? - somewhere in a place called OFFICE. 8. What are you listening to right now? - Akon’s “Don’t Matter” 9.What do you smell like? - Hopefully nice, I’m currently wearing VC’s Sweet Temptation 10. What color are your pants/jeans that you're wearing? - Black 11. Closest thing to your left? - A pile of paper ( BTR for payroll ) 12. What color is your shirt? - Red 13. Do you have a brother? - At birth? I can only wish... 14. T... http://eljhaey.multiply.com/journal/item/20/SingLe_RoCKs_ Thu, 3 May 2007 06:29:21 -0000